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Post by synch on Apr 10, 2019 23:49:06 GMT
THE TWELVE STEPS
1. We admitted we were powerless over our emotions — that our lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. 4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. 5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. 6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character. 7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. 8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all. 9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others. 10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it. 11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out. 12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
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Post by synch on Apr 10, 2019 23:51:11 GMT
THE TWELVE PROMISES
1. We realize a new freedom and happiness. 2. We do not regret the past or wish to shut the door on it. 3. We comprehend the word serenity, and we know peace of mind. 4. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we see how our experience can benefit others. 5. The feelings of uselessness and self-pity lessen. 6. We have less concern about self and gain interest in others. 7. Self-seeking slips away. 8. Our whole attitude and outlook upon life changes. 9. Our relationships with other people improve. 10. We intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us. 11. We acquire a feeling of security within ourselves. 12. We realize that God is doing for us what we could not do ourselves.
These may seem like extravagant promises, but they are not. They are being fulfilled among us, sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly.
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Post by synch on Apr 10, 2019 23:53:23 GMT
HELPFUL CONCEPTS
1. We come to EA to learn how to live a new way of life through the twelve-step program of Emotions Anonymous which consists of Twelve Steps, Twelve Traditions, concepts, the Serenity Prayer, slogans, Just for Todays, EA literature, weekly meetings, telephone and personal contacts, and living the program one day at a time. We do not come for another person—we come to help ourselves and to share our experiences, strength, and hope with others. 2. We are experts only on our own stories, how we try to live the program, how the program works for us, and what EA has done for us. No one speaks for Emotions Anonymous as a whole. 3. We respect anonymity—no questions are asked. We aim for an atmosphere of love and acceptance. We do not care who you are or what you have done. You are welcome. 4. We do not judge; we do not criticize; we do not argue. We do not give advice regarding personal or family affairs. 5. EA is not a sounding board for continually reviewing our miseries, but a way to learn to detach ourselves from them. Part of our serenity comes from being able to live at peace with unsolved problems. 6. We never discuss religion, politics, national or international issues, or other belief systems or policies. EA has no opinion on outside issues. 7. Emotions Anonymous is a spiritual program, not a religious program. We do not advocate any particular belief system. 8. The steps suggest a belief in a Power greater than ourselves. This can be human love, a force for good, the group, nature, the universe, God, or any entity a member chooses as a personal Higher Power. 9. We utilize the program—we do not analyze it. Understanding comes with experience. Each day we apply some part of the program to our personal lives. 10. We have not found it helpful to place labels on any degree of illness or health. We may have different symptoms, but the underlying emotions are the same or similar. We discover we are not unique in our difficulties and illnesses. 11. Each person is entitled to his or her own opinions and may express them at a meeting within the guidelines of EA. We are all equal—no one is more important than another. 12. Part of the beauty and wonder of the EA program is that at meetings we can say anything and know it stays there. Anything we hear at a meeting, on the telephone, or from another member is confidential and is not to be repeated to anyone—EA members, mates, families, relatives or friends.
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Post by synch on Apr 10, 2019 23:55:21 GMT
JUST FOR TODAY: THE CHOICE IS MINE
1. Just for today I will try to live through this day only, not tackling all of my problems at once. I can do something at this moment that would discourage me if I had to continue it for a lifetime. 2. Just for today I will try to be happy, realizing my happiness does not depend on what others do or say or what happens around me. Happiness is a result of being at peace with myself. 3. Just for today I will try to adjust myself to what is and not force everything to adjust to my own desires. I will accept my family, my friends, my business, my circumstances as they come. 4. Just for today I will take care of my physical health; I will exercise my mind; I will read something spiritual. 5. Just for today I will do somebody a good turn and not get found out. If anyone knows of it, it will not count. I will do at least one thing I don’t want to do, and I will perform some small act of love for my neighbor. 6. Just for today I will try to go out of my way to be kind to someone I meet. I will be considerate, talk low, and look as good as I can. I will not engage in unnecessary criticism or finding fault, nor try to improve or regulate anybody except myself. 7. Just for today I will have a program. I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two pests— hurry and indecision. 8. Just for today I will stop saying, "If I had time." I never will find time for anything. If I want time, I must take it. 9. Just for today I will have a quiet time of meditation wherein I shall think of my Higher Power, of myself, and of my neighbor. I shall relax and seek truth. 10. Just for today I shall be unafraid. Particularly, I shall be unafraid to be happy, to enjoy what is good, what is beautiful, and what is lovely in life. 11. Just for today I will not compare myself with others. I will accept myself and live to the best of my ability. 12. Just for today I choose to believe that I can live this one day.
SLOGANS WE USE
1. Let go and let God 2. You are not alone 3. One day at a time 4. Live and let live 5. First things first 6. Look for the good
7. By the grace of God 8. Know yourself—be honest 9. This too shall pass 10. I need people 11. Keep it simple 12. I have a choice
SERENITY PRAYER
God grant me the serenity To accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference.
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Post by synch on Apr 10, 2019 23:56:04 GMT
THE TWELVE TRADITIONS
1. Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends on EA unity. 2. For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern. 3. The only requirement for EA membership is a desire to become well emotionally. 4. Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or EA as a whole. 5. Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry its message to the person who still suffers from emotional problems. 6. An EA group ought never endorse, finance or lend the EA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose. 7. Every EA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions. 8. Emotions Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ special workers. 9. EA, as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve. 10. Emotions Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence, the EA name ought never be drawn into public controversy. 11. Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio and films. 12. Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities.
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Post by Admin on Apr 21, 2019 20:35:15 GMT
If anyone has any other original EA literature they would like to share, please do so here.
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Post by Admin on Apr 29, 2019 19:32:21 GMT
ADMINISTRATIVE CONCEPT XII — PRINCIPLES The spiritual principles for EA world services are contained in the spirit of our organization as a whole. Our personal spiritual awakening is the result of the Twelve Steps. Applying spiritual principles is also the goal of EA service. Through spiritual practice we find the freedom to live courageously and joyously. Four main principles or points are of use in our continuing world service: Point one gives specific direction on prudent financial management. Point two protects each member from absolute authority and reinforces the Right of Participation. Point three expresses deep respect for the spirit of freedom in our fellowship. There is regard for the views of all and the directive that all decisions are reached by discussion, vote, and whenever possible, unanimity. Point four reaffirms the high value we set on our liberties and restates the democratic nature of our fellowship. In EA the individual members and groups hold extraordinary democratic power. It is through their prudent, responsible, and loving exercise of their liberties that the fellowship of EA can continue to grow, bringing comfort and hope to millions more in need of its help. 67 Administrative Concepts.pdf (223 KB)
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Post by patwhatever708 on Mar 10, 2020 22:59:48 GMT
RE 2nd Tradition:
I DO regret a lot of my past but do not dwell on how wrong it was anymore. I gave my past to God. If humans don't want to "forgive" me (for some dumb thing I did or said), that is of course their problem. I have enough of a time trying to forgive myself sometimes, so don't need their judgmentalism, condemnation, although, again, I have given it to God (and stay away from haters as much as possible). I know that God, through Jesus, does forgive and heal. Jesus knew what it was like to be a human being (although w/o sin).
anyway, hope this doesn't sound too preachy.. just what is on my mind/heart @ this time. I have been through hell. I know others out there have as well. My advice: Stay away from human relationships unless and until you know can more/less trust the person
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Post by patwhatever708 on Mar 10, 2020 23:00:12 GMT
RE 2nd Tradition: I DO regret a lot of my past but do not dwell on how wrong it was anymore. I gave my past to God. If humans don't want to "forgive" me (for some dumb thing I did or said), that is of course their problem. I have enough of a time trying to forgive myself sometimes, so don't need their judgmentalism, condemnation, although, again, I have given it to God (and stay away from haters as much as possible). I know that God, through Jesus, does forgive and heal. Jesus knew what it was like to be a human being (although w/o sin). anyway, hope this doesn't sound too preachy.. just what is on my mind/heart @ this time. I have been through hell. I know others out there have as well. What i have learned is: Stay away from human relationships unless and until you know can more/less trust the person
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